昨天半夜,大约凌晨12点左右,我哥哥的成绩终于揭晓了...他果然没有令父母失望...当天晚上,
我哥哥一直担心自己会fail...但是当成绩一出了,他整个人就好像放下人心头大石..但是的气氛,我哥哥开心到..这种开心是用笔也不能形容的..当我坐在他的隔壁,我的心情也被他影响了..随着气氛一起兴奋起来了..我也替哥哥感到高兴啊...当我每次去到哥哥学院的时候,我的哥哥好像瘦了很多...原来是读书带来的压力..这次证明了一件事,我哥哥的努力使没有白费的...真所谓,一份耕耘,一份收获啊...
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transformer(变形金刚)
昨天,我看了transformers 2了...这套视虽然时间久,要2小时45分才看完,但是是值得看的...因为这套视的票房是全世界最高的...所以超多人看的...我也是要等到昨天才订到票看罢了...我看了之后,我认为这套视的导演蛮厉害的...不知用了多少的人力物力,才可以帮这套视拍完呢??这套视应该还会出第3集的...因为这套视最后还有狂派的两个坏人逃走了...在酱多的机器人中,我最喜欢的是optomis和大王峰吧了...因为我觉得他们很厉害...还有机器人两兄弟,我也蛮喜欢看他们打架的...超可爱...哈哈...如果现实的世界里真的有机器人的话...你说多好啊...他可以变什么跑车都可以...我非常的期待着第3集的到来啊...~~
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可怜的一位小女生(一起抵抗H1N1)吧！！
最近芙蓉有间学校有位不幸运的女生不小心患上了H1N1...所以那间学校的全部学生和老师酱要被隔离...那位女生患上那种病的原因是因为他的哥哥从外国回来,他的哥哥中了H1N1,所以才传染到给她的妹妹...现在这种病肆无忌惮的传染给人...我真希望能把这种病尽快的消灭掉...不要在让这种(死)病,(烂)病在继续放肆下去了...
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The 90/10 Principle
Author : Stephen Covey ( Management Guru)
Have you read this before? Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life
(at least the way you react to situations). What is this principle?
10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react. What does this mean?
We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.
How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red light., but you can control your reaction. Don't let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.
Let's use an example. You are eating breakfast with your family. Your
daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just what happened. What happens when the next will be determined by how you react.You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for
knocking the cup over.
She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave
immediately for work.
You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit. After a 15-minute delay and
throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your
spouse and daughter.
Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?
The answer is " D".
You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. Here is what could have and should have happened.
Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "It's ok honey, you just need, to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush
upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.
Notice the difference? Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both
ended different.
Why? Because of how you REACTED. You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.
Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle. If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.
How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off)
Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive? Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.
You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job. The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse. Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it.
The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.
The result? Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.
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i am 仔仔(放假中)心情bad
大家好,我是第一次写blog罢了...只希望能把我生活中一部分的经历来分享给大家...我现在还读着中三..我跟朋友也相处得很融洽哦....这个月是学校假期...我在家里无所事事的发呆..只好写起blog来...最近,我很担心一个人...他已经一个星期没有跟我聊天了,我不知道是我惹她生气,还是她发生什么事了..如果他看到我这个blog...我希望她能复回我...不要再令我担心她了...
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